Skip to main content

REASONS WHY PEOPLE STARE AT YOU...




There have been lots of funny experiences happening lately due to the UNUSUAL FUEL SCARCITY in Nigeria.
A case scenario was that, I couldn't even prize my TRANSPORT-FARE with the driver (lol). Whatsoever they said, we just agreed.
During this period, I have even seen TEN PEOPLE get into a "MOLUWE," what is generally called "KEKE"... Lol*rotfl*
Another strange sight which almost got me laughing on the sidewalk was this; While I was walking (not trekking) to get a bus, some "AGBORO" guy from a bus beckoned at me and said, "YOU DEY GO?" I looked at the guy for a moment and wondered where does he want me to sit. Do you know where the guy was? HE WAS HANGING FROM THE BACK OF THE BUS!!! hahahhaha.. (sorry guys, there's no pix after the cut)
But in all, there are people who don't even feel the strain in the economy. CHOOSE TO LIVE FROM THERE!

Okay, enough of these fun experiences, 


Hey! I've got something to tell you today.

This is a little something I think will be helpful to you.

Firstly, I must warn you that this is not a new scientific discovery; It's just a hypothesis I have drawn from several inferences put together in my head. Or in logic, you might want to say, it's deductive reasoning gotten from a logical premise.

At the end of this reading, you would understand why I started this way.


Let’s begin.

People look at you for several reasons, why? I carefully captured my thoughts for you in this article


1. People look at you because of the positive.

Everything positive in this regard could be; you look stunning, or I love your make-up or I love your dress or I want to do you good. It's innumerable. So don't fret if you look great.

The photo of the pretty lady on the display picture above is a dear friend and ROCKTOWN RADIO PRESENTER. Today also happens to be her Birthday. So Fair Peach, I doff my hat for you!


2. People stare because of the negative.

From your clothes to your extra miss-match make-up or cosmetics, or maybe, I envy something that you have and I would like to have it either forcefully or I don't care how I get it from you


3. People look at you to see if they know you. Have you had someone stare askance at you for a long while? Maybe he or she is trying to place in their heads where they had seen you. So, be calm! They might try to approach you somehow.


4. To attract attention: Like a lady staring at a guy to get his attention or vise versa


5. People look at you to see if you’re looking back at them. The reason for this would be among the reasons already listed


6. People look at you because you remind them of an experience.


7. People look at you simply for pleasure; Just for the pleasure of looking.


8. People can also stare at you basically because they are trying to communicate: Someone's eye contact could mean the person is trying to communicate something, or maybe in need of some kind of favour or assistance. An illustration could be that, you might be thinking if you want to get a cab, whereas the cab driver is also staring at you and hoping you might call him. LOL. But, there's more to it than this illustration. Feel free to mention them.


Another illustration could be; someone who might be trying to steal what you have or maybe trying to harm you. But in this case, I think you need to call the cops or, think of how to defend yourself especially if you mistakenly find yourself strolling on the streets of "NIGERIA". LOL!


OK don't get me wrong here, I wasn't trying to be mean to the Nigerian police, just saying that the security and even emergency services should up their ante.


I think this is my own opinion. If you think you have something else to say, you can comment below.

.

So, do remember next time someone stares at you, don't feel perturbed by the stare, simply think of the 8 lines above. But if you think the stare was beyond the 8 outlined in this article, please report to the police!!! Lol


Hope you enjoyed this piece.

See you next time dear friend>>

Love. Ambassador


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

RELATIONSHIP ANCHORS - 7 RELATIONSHIPS YOU SHOULDN'T LET GO IN 2022

  A Happy New Year Fam and Welcome to 2022 and to My first blog for the year. I have loads of good stuff for you this year on my blog and podcast. https://anchor.fm/victory-isen/episodes/Sir-VC---Achieving-your-plans-in-2022--beyond-e1cl9de One thing you should really be on the look out for this year is the Mental and Emotional Hack Leadership Series; FACTS, TRUTH & DARE. I can't wait for it too. Ensure to stick close and closer and closeeerrrr... Ok, let's begin. When you think of relationships what's the first thing that comes to mind? PEOPLE, right? And many times we do not even put ourselves in the picture. It's weird to know that the first place we ought to look at in a relationship is the last place nobody would think about; MYSELF, OURSELVES, as individuals. Relationships first begins with me, you as an individual. You'd have to be responsible for yourself first then, everything else that follows would stem from this. Stick with me till the end. But ther...

SOMEBODY KNOWS PART-2

Something about him that you never knew… Today on my EXCLUSIVE, De AMBASSADOR features ELI-J SOMEBODY KNOWS PART-2 He knew that one day he was going to be on the spotlight but what he also knew was that he never knew when... however, he kept working on his best. Before we hit the runway, I want to say that today, the 9 th of March, depending on your geographical location, also happens to be his birthday. During his interview, he reminded me of how my dad always came around to wake us up as lads to attend our rote routine morning devotion. He would come with a cane and flog us when we slept beyond the time we were expected to be there. And this delay was mostly because of the late night movies we stayed up late to watch. We got so used to the time he would come into the room such that we didn’t need an alarm to go off at 5am anymore. Often times, before he even raised his cane to whip, we were already staring at him. And I’m certain he knew back then what our stares ...

THE BETTER YOU!!!

  READ THIS LITTLE PIECE OF NOTE I LEFT YOU. I went for a short trip this weekend and I might be back before you get to the end. Well... that would depend on you (read carefully>>) WHAT DO YOU SEE??? Life oftentimes in the past have dealt roughly with us, and we fail to see rightly as we ought. Whatever happens in life, we choose to see either the problem, or the solution; the friends or the haters, the half-empty or the half-filled cup; the anger or the love. Why spend time on the negative when you could have exerted the same amount of energy and emotions or maybe even lesser, on the positive? The positive emotions always trumps the negative, anytime, everytime. WHAT DO YOU SEE??? CHOOSE to be the better YOU. Don't be the YOU that keeps getting worse than your original state. If I didn't have you in mind before I traveled, I wouldn't have left you this note. If you're still curious as to who I am, I AM THE BETTER PART OF YOU THAT YOU IGNORED. You ...