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HOW DO I "HANDLE" HER?

I have this pretty lady colleague of mine. She is smart and intelligent but often times, subtly annoying...




Hi Ardent Reader,
You are the BEST, regardless of how many have been HERE.

I have this pretty lady colleague of mine. She is smart and intelligent but often times, subtly annoying (hmm). We have been called cat and dog by my other male colleagues. But, I think I have seen some playful cats and dogs like the cat - GARFIELD.. LOL

And at times, the thing argued about could have been solved amicably and reasonably if she'd patiently listened but, I wonder, if it actually is a girl thing not to just listen to what you have to say... PLEASE GUYS HELP HIM OUT!!!
So, how do I handle her? Well,,, other ladies might scoff at the word "handle",,, Forgive me, I rephrase "How do I relate with her since we are closely-knit in the same office and Now I have to see her 5days a week too...as much as I eat breakfast and lunch in that same office?" #smiles#

OK
The story above will be continued for those who are lover of stories; I DO TOO!!!
Moreover, I had to lead you on to this point; We've had our serious moments and jovial moments too.

We often have found ourselves in situations where we had to relate with the only person who is gifted at ruining beautiful smiles. You might even be experiencing same now BUT...

I think it's also time to have some inspiring quotes. What do you think???
Yea, you're right!

Shake the tension off and put away the anger and malice. I took a break off work (...away from her...) to make sure this got to you. Be patient and pay attention to every line as you read meditatively.


 BE INSPIRED!!!

I think these quotes are very authentic and self-understood, except you have something against them which I think you wouldn't.


One of the definitions of Success is, making the world better than how you met it. And impacting the world with the investment of your personality.
-- Chris Oyakhilome Ph.D


Richard Bach

“You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however.”
― Richard Bach
 

Michael Bassey Johnson
“Sometimes we have to behave indifferent towards people who proclaim their love to us, just to see if they are really different.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

 Ralph Waldo Emerson
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

Malcolm X “So early in my life, I had learned that if you want something, you had better make some noise.”


“For the man who uses well what he is given shall be given more, and he shall have abundance…” Matthew 25:29 TLB

Harry S. Truman
“It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.”
― Harry S. Truman

"Fashion fades away, but character leaves an impression of who you are in the minds of others"
---incognito


Michael Bassey Johnson
“If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson

Hey, I know these inspiring moments were very brief, yet powerful.
I believe this is something you would have probably seen online if you'd browsed them up but, we can bet this was very helpful because, I'm sure it did make you crave for more achievements.
Sure you were inspired. The above quotes were just to spur you up and awaken your self worth.
I had to make sure this post got to you, just in case you were slacking a little...
Remember, I've always got your back... winks.. 
But hope you got mine too? So, how do I handle her?
Love, Ambassador
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http://www.westafricabloggersconference.com/index.html 

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